Katerin,
So glad your Momma is feeling better.
I agree with you about a couple of things on BFM's orginal DNR it was blurry so we had
it changed. We didn't know it at the time and didn't think to much about it until
BFM had the mini stroke.. and the Dr. was asking about a peg tube and even
had her scheduled to have one put in I had a fit because that was something
she never wanted! But because it was not listed on her DNR specificly we had no choice.

Luckily and by a sure act of God BFM was coherent enough to tell them NO! She did not
want it and they had to abide by her wishes. That coherent moment only lasted for a couple
of hours and she hasn't been able to communicate much since then (a word here and there
or a sentence from time to time). God really was watching over us that day.

That was so sweet that your wonderful Momma sat you down and talked to you about your sweet Daddy.
How loving and gentle she sounded.